We were very lucky to have Zelda as our counsellor,when your Mom and I were thinking of splitting up.
We attended Relate in Esher and I was taken aback by the quality of Zelda's work.Brilliant.Helping both of us keep on track and not diverted by the crap that,ultimately,comes up.
Zelda made only one demand of us.
That,there was to be no violence during the counselling.
Alas,Siabreen broke her agreement !